I woke to a mess with Stacie and an ex friend, bills, CJ and BJ.
I've washed the dishes from yesterday, handled these fires by simply postponing them. Am heading up to the nursery to get a list of seed I need, coming back and make some calls re: orders and then get a bite to eat.
I am including the entire covo I woke up to this morning.
This is from a former friends of Stacie's. Her name is Kelly. her husband's name is Merlin. They were a hot 3-some at a time, I think before Kelly and Merlin married. Merlin
is in the pen for molesting his son. I do not know if he did it, or if his ex wife trumped up these charges. From what I know the only things he did was watch porn with the kid in the room and checked the boy's penis out once when the boy complained of it burning and hurting. The ex wife says more, but I don't know and I don't care. Supposedly Stacie has blocked these people on her phone because they keep texting her and calling her. But from time to time she goes into the blocked folder and found this last night.
She also sent me this which is a copy of what she emailed CJ
This is going to be your portion of the bills.
| Garbage | $54.00 |
| DIRECTV | $44.75 |
| Electric | $125.00 |
| Satellite | $43.16 |
| Total | $266.91 |
I figured that I would do it this way for the simple fact that I really want to be left alone due to some very upsetting text messages that I got. It is okay, I didn't need a friend at all. It was one thing to get your dad to come and get you that was fine, but you didn't even have the common courtesy to let me know. That kind of upset me. Then I went into my blocked folder and there are four messages from Kelly telling me a bunch of shit and calling me a bitch and a whore.
Stacie
To which I replied along with emails between CJ and myself:
I got this. Give me some time to wake up, to get meds in, to get coffee in, to process and complete my thinking. Then I will either respond or we will talk.
Girls, do not get into a screaming match with each other before you all hear from me.
Stacie, as for your text from Kelly, if you have done what she accused you of doing, then you have amends to make and you need to stop it.
If you haven't and you can prove you haven't, then report her to the phone company. Just remember, all our phones are on one account so don't do anything that would cause our account to be compromised.
love and good rainy Monday
mom
CJ's reply:
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Good morning, I am not mad at Stacie and when she sent me the text about kelly I told just. ignore her cause merlin calls her from different phone. And she was fed up with it and the next time he called I answered it. And flat out that she didnt want to talk to him and not call back. So I am thinking he called kelly told her bunch of lies She even called me a bitch and I said I dont care what she says. I know I am a bitch. And also told her if they didnt stop she should go file harrassment charges on them. And if I have to give you little more money for bills I will just let me know.
On Jan 9, 2012 7:07 AM, "elf" <here.is.elf@gmail.com> wrote:
Thank you hon, for helping to diffuse the situation. You are right on the Kelly thing. Can Stacie be havin a breakdown?
On Mon, Jan 9, 2012 at 7:12 AM, Chantel Patterson <cpatterson36.cp@gmail.com> wrote:
I really dont know. but I do know she really depressed. she might be. honestly only the mental health dr can say. I love stacie she my best friend I dont want anything to, happen to her.
On Jan 9, 2012 7:14 AM, "elf" <here.is.elf@gmail.com> wrote:
Thanks. Just keep an eye on her, try to not let her be ugly to you. When does she see her doctor again
On Mon, Jan 9, 2012 at 7:20 AM, Chantel Patterson <cpatterson36.cp@gmail.com> wrote:
she sees both the dr and counciler thursday. I wont and I wonder do you think that some of this could be because I will be moving,out soon..? Because where ever I move too she always welcome in my home.
On Jan 9, 2012 7:42 AM, "elf" <here.is.elf@gmail.com> wrote:
I imagine it has something to do with it. relationship dynamics are complicated. Add in money woes and other things and a person can get all screwed up in their thinking.
It will work out. How long before you think you will find you somewhere to move to?
Are you pretty sure on this?
I honestly think a lot of the problem is this...
Without ya'll there to help it will be impossible for Stacie to make it on just unemployment. At least ya'll help out with non food items, gas and the bills along with a doctor or medicine when you can.
She has some jealousy that at the moment you have money plus BJ makes money and she doesn't. Money is very important to Stacie and when she is where she is now, it really messes with her mind, especially when I've chewed her butt like I did last week.
Stacie's problem is not you and your family. Stacie's problem is Stacie.
The same is true for everyone of us.
You have given me enough money for the bills I pay. In fact I will give Stacie 40 of it toward the Direct and garbage, so she only needs 48.75. I will cover her cell phone bill this month but I'll have the plan in place next month where she can help pay on it.
I am working on a weekly plan that will help me, you and Stacie pay the bills, but with your paying the lump sum due to having your school check, it will start next month if ya'll are here.
I know people need all they can scrap up to even get them a place to live, but none of us have a lot as you know. :)
I also realize a lot of this depends on BJ going back to work.
yes mame it will be after we do our taxes when we move. my dad is coming to pick me up to go look at a car on coast. hopefully that will work out that way we can let the truck rest and save on gas.
Ok, got that out of the way, CJ and BJ will be car shopping today. I imagine Stacie is very jealous that CJ is going to maybe buy her a way to go, therefore won't be dependant on Stacie. Stacie doesn't trust anyone to do for her what she does for others and any little thing that appears as though she has been proven right, sets her off. Like last night cj had her dad come get her to go cash her school check (they get loans for school and what they don't use they get back) and check on this car she is looking at. It pissed Stacie off because she saw it as the check burning a hole in cj's pocket..blah, blah, blah.
Pam, that cottage looks better and better all the time. :D
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